Fundamental Tips For Single Muslims Dating

By Ann Perry


Acknowledging a lifetime partner has never and will never be a walk in the park but will always demand an exercise of due diligence and utmost guidance from Allah. Single Muslims must understand that dating has never been an option as acknowledged from other cultures. However, marriage is perceived holy and a form of worship by Allah. Therefore, an aspiration to acquire a lifetime partner is indisputable and so is purity. Discussed throughout the article are fundamental tips to all the solo Muslims looking for a marriage partner.

To begin with, patient is paramount to a successful search. One must override in patience in order to identify the most appealing person to spend their life time with. The current millennial generation is faced by the tragedy of hasty decisions especially when it comes to relationships and marriages. However, while aspiring a successful encounter, one must take their time and exercise keenness. Remember to dispense any magical appearance of your partner imaginations whatsoever.

At times, endeavor to participate through the activities arranged and organized by your local mosque. Through your engagement, you stand a chance of meeting and having acquaintances with fellow believers of the opposite sex. There is one thing to note; common interests. This common interest such a sense of service or attendance to the same mosque matters a lot and it can stand out to be an anchored foundation of a long lasting marriage.

Following the technological developments, internet has availed opportunities where Muslims can meet partners online from all over the world. There are dating or rather introductory sites purposely designed for Muslim singles. While signing up, you must incorporate correct info about you and your whereabouts. Ensure you remain steadfast to the original purpose of getting a lifetime partner.

While meeting a person of the opposite sex for the first time, make sure to have the company of a trusted adult. Chaperoning is highly recommended in the Muslim society. Be keen to only consider keeping the meeting light and very friendly. Also, keep it real and simple. For example, a lunch or attending an activity together might be ideal.

Always show respect to the other person. Whether you like them or not, you are meeting them and they deserve some respect from you. Possessing a high level of etiquette is mandatory. For the young man, be respecting to the lady. Remember, the lady is looking for the husband in you. Be keen and attentive to all her words and communications. The same should apply to the ladies; appreciate the gentleman for what he is.

Parents are full of wisdom, counsel and a higher level of discernment. Therefore, you must consult them in depths on this issue. In fact, your parents will probably have a suggestion of who to meet with. They will also avail gen full of vital ideas of what to look out for.

Be transparent to the other person from the word go. Honesty must be upheld by all means. Deception and forged profiling should be dispensed especially when looking for a marriage partner. Therefore, be yourself and depict the correct information about you.

Conclusively, every Muslim must always seek the guidance of Allah. Allah has always showered those that seek guidance with both wisdom and discernment. Consequently, you will have a safe, effective and victorious encounter with your partner.




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