Most of us have been there.
Your love is being abused. You feel horrible about yourself. You know that you should walk away from that person who is taking advantage of you but you can't muster up the courage to do it.
Everyone has been there. For our own sake, we have to respect ourselves to walk from bad situations where we are being used and move on.
To be honest, there's an art to this. There's an art to leaving people who don't respect you or treat you like you matter.
How do you say goodbye to someone without losing yourself, burning bridges, or disrespecting the person across from you? Tough question. But if you lead from your heart and speak your truth you can hardly go wrong.
This can be very difficult to do however.
What's the true indicator that you need to walk away from people who don't respect you anymore?
There's nothing wrong with having high standards in your life as long as you are prepared to follow them yourself and leave when you are being abused. Most of the time people struggle because they don't have the integrity to follow what their gut is telling them and they stay in relationships far longer than they should.
However, when you start to learn really what you are worth, you find it easier and easier to walk away from people who don't love you and respect you.
Now I'm not saying that this process isn't painful - of course it is. But in the end you will be much happier in the long run.
If you don't walk away from toxic people, you will lose yourself in the end and have to deal with the regret of knowing that you had a chance to save yourself all of this heartache.
So have the courage to walk away.
The other art form in all of this is taking people back after they have come back into your life realizing just how much you are worth. This is a time to truly tap into your heart and see if what they are saying and doing really resonates with you. If it doesn't continue down your path and leave them behind. If it does, you might just have another chance at love.
If you're heart continues to tell you that whatever is in front of you isn't good for you, stick to your guns. Stick to your guns at all costs because if you ignore what you know you should do the amount of pain coming your way is substantial.
If you want to live a truly brilliant life, you have to devote yourself to never settling. Never settle for "good enough" because eventually that will turn into mediocrity. Instead, aim as high as you can because even though you will never achieve perfection, you will hit something called "excellence."
Live a life full of love and cherish the opportunities that come your way. Don't settle for anything less.
Your love is being abused. You feel horrible about yourself. You know that you should walk away from that person who is taking advantage of you but you can't muster up the courage to do it.
Everyone has been there. For our own sake, we have to respect ourselves to walk from bad situations where we are being used and move on.
To be honest, there's an art to this. There's an art to leaving people who don't respect you or treat you like you matter.
How do you say goodbye to someone without losing yourself, burning bridges, or disrespecting the person across from you? Tough question. But if you lead from your heart and speak your truth you can hardly go wrong.
This can be very difficult to do however.
What's the true indicator that you need to walk away from people who don't respect you anymore?
There's nothing wrong with having high standards in your life as long as you are prepared to follow them yourself and leave when you are being abused. Most of the time people struggle because they don't have the integrity to follow what their gut is telling them and they stay in relationships far longer than they should.
However, when you start to learn really what you are worth, you find it easier and easier to walk away from people who don't love you and respect you.
Now I'm not saying that this process isn't painful - of course it is. But in the end you will be much happier in the long run.
If you don't walk away from toxic people, you will lose yourself in the end and have to deal with the regret of knowing that you had a chance to save yourself all of this heartache.
So have the courage to walk away.
The other art form in all of this is taking people back after they have come back into your life realizing just how much you are worth. This is a time to truly tap into your heart and see if what they are saying and doing really resonates with you. If it doesn't continue down your path and leave them behind. If it does, you might just have another chance at love.
If you're heart continues to tell you that whatever is in front of you isn't good for you, stick to your guns. Stick to your guns at all costs because if you ignore what you know you should do the amount of pain coming your way is substantial.
If you want to live a truly brilliant life, you have to devote yourself to never settling. Never settle for "good enough" because eventually that will turn into mediocrity. Instead, aim as high as you can because even though you will never achieve perfection, you will hit something called "excellence."
Live a life full of love and cherish the opportunities that come your way. Don't settle for anything less.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a fearless adventurer, professional life coach and writer. He is on a mission to incite the hearts and minds of those around him and help them live their best lives. Read more of his work at The Better Man Projects and throw yourself into these Life Is Too Short Quotes for some more inspiration and motivation.
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