Stop looking for your other half.
What?!
That probably does sound completely paradoxical to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you are not actually an entire person right off the bat. It implies, that you really do not have everything inside of you already that you need to live a happy life. Isn't life about actually seeing ourselves and who we are deep down within?
Instead, look out for the person who is going to be your teammate. Look for someone that challenges you to be something bigger than you've ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tricky and who comes to you when they want support too. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and disappear. Even the amazing relationships that pass the test of time eventually end and you have to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you wouldn't be damaged to pieces when they are gone. So be a whole person who can love another in total. Be the best version you can be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the right way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who wants to do the same, then you can meet together as two entire people who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are unfinished without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to significant amounts of depth and the facility to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you'll be way better off. These relationships bloom.
What?!
That probably does sound completely paradoxical to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you are not actually an entire person right off the bat. It implies, that you really do not have everything inside of you already that you need to live a happy life. Isn't life about actually seeing ourselves and who we are deep down within?
Instead, look out for the person who is going to be your teammate. Look for someone that challenges you to be something bigger than you've ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tricky and who comes to you when they want support too. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and disappear. Even the amazing relationships that pass the test of time eventually end and you have to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you wouldn't be damaged to pieces when they are gone. So be a whole person who can love another in total. Be the best version you can be for yourself and allow another to dream with you on the right way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who wants to do the same, then you can meet together as two entire people who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are unfinished without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to significant amounts of depth and the facility to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you'll be way better off. These relationships bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Time to move on from an old relationship, start working on yourself, and diving into what life has to offer? Dig into these quotes about moving on for some great perspective.
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