Oh To Love, How Rare That Really Is

By Evan Sanders


Oh to love, how rare that truly is. The things we love in this world last only so long. Yes, it may only be 5 minutes, 5 years, or a complete lifetime, but in the end we eventually part. How truly lucky we are to have something so fantastic at one point that makes the ending of the journey so hard. But for people that love unconditionally...for those that love with their full heart and understand that we are all sentenced to an end, we stay present with the people we really love. We make that moment last as long as we are able to because who really knows when those moments will be no more for us. Our love is the thing that miracles are made from. Our love is the thing that can truly and authentically change the world . We see people near us all the time fall in love with something they really enjoy, and the world changes around them. We see people who fall completely in love with a person, and their energy, the two of them together as a unit creates something that other people can honestly see and feel.

Love goes beyond.

Love is a type of energy that cannot be explained.

Words are no match for it. Even when the finest of words are employed in the most stylish way, only a scratch is created on truly describing what love is. This is the reason why our hearts literally break when love crashes and burns. Recovery appears as distant cousin. We enter into a deep state of loss because the person we were with were truly was our other set of eyes, hands and legs.

Our close friends, our work, our relationships, all can be deeply adored. Not childish "love" but I am talking about the sort of truly deep and incredibly vulnerable love, where you haven't any fear in your brain about telling that person the worst about yourself, the darkest worries you have kept secret, because in the end... you know that love transcends all. You give someone the tools to totally destroy you down to your core, and you trust them with everything within you not to.

Love nevertheless can become a fugitive type of thing.

And that really is how it is meant to be. As human beings, we try to keep hold of the good things truly as long as we possibly can, but frequently the good just runs out and the balance of life takes a dip from what we had. We are meant to be brought down, so we are able to in fact rise again. From the beginning, I have always thought that the person I really fell madly in love with, my soulmate, wouldn't simply just be the person who would be on the up and up with me, but the one that would support me and even help me walk through those dips in life.

The love that I have felt in past years has been glorious, life changing, phenomenal, and yet at all the same time momentary. Things occur, things change, and as the years have gone by, I've found more and more methods to appreciate what I had vs what I lost. I think that has been a major turning point for me. My soul opens like a blooming flower every time I give myself the chance to experience life. The good and the bad. The strength of a strong redwood is built into my core and flowers of deep experience, zeal, and knowledge bloom through my soul.

We are supposed to experience the things we do on the trails we fervently choose.

Hang onto what you can while you have it and awfully love those around you. Cold and hard hearts are for the weak. That's fear chatting. That is fear trying to defend the one thing you know that might really make you 100% exposed. Overt and outspoken strength is not strength remotely. It's weakness making an attempt to convince an audience it is something else.

Honest vulnerability and a delicate heart is true strength. The path permits you to confront even your worst fears with keenness and spirit.

Love deeply.

Love zealously.

Love vulnerably.

Love with no fear.




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