So, you have been going out with your beautiful Hong Kong girl for a while. Everything is going to the right direction and you feel maybe she is the one for you. Despite all of your friend's advice about dating Asian woman, you have no problem about that.
One day your girlfriend comes to meet you and ask, "Baby, can you meet my parents next Sunday. They would like to see you". You have no idea what you should do. Also you might think who do I turn for help?
In fact, it won't be quite that terrible. I am sure you heard some stories and myths. But your girl's parents are not that scary. All they want is you are a reliable man that can take care of their daughter in the future. So calm down and do some preparation in advance. You will be fine!
Dress to impress: First impression is very important. The first step is to find some neat and smart clothes. If you don't have it, go to buy some. In fact, your Hong Kong girl should give you the best advice about what you should wear for the occasion. She can also go shopping with you if you both have time.
Career: You might be wondering what kind of things you should talk during the meal. Talking about your career is always the best option. I understand not everybody can be in the professions like law or finance. But, the key is to convince them you have a good career and more importantly, you have the ability to make money and support the family if you marry to their daughter in the future.
Respect for her parents: You need to be confident but you should talk softly and intelligently. Also you need show respect for her parents. There may be some other relatives and friends in the event. They might want to see the foreign boyfriend as well. You should not drink too much during the dinner.
In the end, it's OK for you to feel a bit nervous if it's your first time to meet an Asian family. It's a very important step for your relationship with your girlfriend. I am sure you will feel more comfortable when you have more chances to meet her family in the future. Good luck!
One day your girlfriend comes to meet you and ask, "Baby, can you meet my parents next Sunday. They would like to see you". You have no idea what you should do. Also you might think who do I turn for help?
In fact, it won't be quite that terrible. I am sure you heard some stories and myths. But your girl's parents are not that scary. All they want is you are a reliable man that can take care of their daughter in the future. So calm down and do some preparation in advance. You will be fine!
Dress to impress: First impression is very important. The first step is to find some neat and smart clothes. If you don't have it, go to buy some. In fact, your Hong Kong girl should give you the best advice about what you should wear for the occasion. She can also go shopping with you if you both have time.
Career: You might be wondering what kind of things you should talk during the meal. Talking about your career is always the best option. I understand not everybody can be in the professions like law or finance. But, the key is to convince them you have a good career and more importantly, you have the ability to make money and support the family if you marry to their daughter in the future.
Respect for her parents: You need to be confident but you should talk softly and intelligently. Also you need show respect for her parents. There may be some other relatives and friends in the event. They might want to see the foreign boyfriend as well. You should not drink too much during the dinner.
In the end, it's OK for you to feel a bit nervous if it's your first time to meet an Asian family. It's a very important step for your relationship with your girlfriend. I am sure you will feel more comfortable when you have more chances to meet her family in the future. Good luck!
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